9/11: A Personal Account From Ground Zero

Tribute in Light memorial beams shining over the New York City skyline on the anniversary of September 11

A firsthand account of escaping the World Trade Center on September 11, 2001, republished twenty-five years later with reflections on preparedness, awareness, and resilience.

What It Takes to Stay in Third Place

Krav Maga students gathering and connecting inside a New York City martial arts school.

Your Third Place Needs You Too Most of us have a first place and a second place. Home is the first. Work or school is usually the second. Then there is the third place, the one we choose to return to because it has become part of our lives. It might be a coffee shop, […]

False Dilemma Thinking and the Rise of Keyboard Experts

A keyboard warrior judges a cropped Krav Maga training clip while the full room shows the missing context.

How Do You Know When You’ve Seen Enough to Judge? I’ve noticed a pattern that shows up in training, and once you see it, you start seeing it everywhere. A short video goes online. The attacker moves. The defender responds. The clip lasts a few seconds. Then people who weren’t in the room, didn’t feel […]

What Makes a Good Teacher? Lessons That Last

A martial arts instructor guiding a student while encouraging independent growth

What Makes a Good Teacher?  The teachers I remember most had little to do with the subjects they taught. I’ve been thinking about my school years lately and running through the faces of the teachers I had. I loved my chemistry teacher and couldn’t stand others. My physical education teacher made his class something I […]

Martial Arts Lesson For Parents

A father releases his teenage son’s hand in a martial arts studio beneath the words “Raise Them to Outgrow You.”

The Teacher’s Final Responsibility Is to Step Aside A Good Teacher Prepares You to Continue Alone The job of a real teacher is to give you the skills to keep going without him. His success becomes visible when you no longer need him beside you. A teacher begins by giving instructions. He shows you what […]

What Conor McGregor’s Injury Revealed About The Crowd

Injured MMA fighter sitting inside a cage as the crowd reacts behind him, with the words “What Do We Value?”

What We Forgive Until Someone Stops Performing Conor McGregor came back to the UFC after more than five years away. His last fight had ended with a broken leg. He recovered, trained, and stepped back into the cage against Max Holloway. The fight lasted sixty-nine seconds. McGregor threw a jumping kick, landed badly, and his […]

The Most Honorable Title I Have Been Given

The Most Honorable Title I Have Been Given

The Most Honorable Title I Have Been Given Father’s Day arrives every year with the same gentle, slightly commercial warmth. Cards, a meal, a gift that gestures at a hobby. I have never objected to any of it, but I have come to suspect we are not entirely sure what the day is for. We […]

What the NY Knicks and the Bandwagon Effect Reveal About Human Nature

What the NY Knicks and the Bandwagon Effect Reveal About Human Nature

Everyone Loves Victory. Few People Respect the Journey I have been living in New York City for over sixteen years. When I moved here from a small village in Israel, the NBA felt like a different world. One of the first things I wanted to do was go to Madison Square Garden and watch the […]

Why Do Good People Do Bad Things?

Why Do Good People Do Bad Things?

Why Good People Do Bad Things Inside a Crowd Paris Saint-Germain F.C. won the Champions League, defeating Inter Milan 5-0. The fans were happy and proud, and many of them reacted in a strange way. They destroyed parts of the city they were supposed to be celebrating in. That makes me uncomfortable because of what […]

The Problem With Saying ‘Happy Memorial Day’

The Problem With Saying ‘Happy Memorial Day’

Comfort Makes Us Forget Who Paid for Our Freedom Every year, millions of Americans say “Happy Memorial Day.” Most mean absolutely no disrespect. They are being polite. They are wishing people a good weekend, good weather, time with family, and rest from work. The phrase became automatic, almost disconnected from the actual meaning of the […]

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