From Salem To Social Media: Stop Rewarding Fast Lies My work takes me to interesting places. This time, I want to tell you about my trip to Salem. We all heard about the witch hunt in movies and in school. It is a tidy story, easy to package, and now the city sells it back… Continue reading Witch Hunts for Sale and the Death of Truth Online
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The Depth You Miss: Why You Misread People
The Iceberg Principle in Self-Defense: Seeing More Than What’s Visible We only ever see the tip of the iceberg. The visible part of a person or a situation is easy to notice, but it rarely tells the full story. What matters most—the weight, the depth, the history—remains hidden below the surface. When we meet people,… Continue reading The Depth You Miss: Why You Misread People
Fighter vs. Warrior: Why the Difference Matters More Than You Think
Warriors Prepare for Missions – Fighters Prepare to Fight Most people who train learn how to fight. Few understand why. Fewer still develop the character to stop fighting when it no longer serves a purpose. That’s the difference between a fighter and a warrior. On the surface, they might look the same. Both know how… Continue reading Fighter vs. Warrior: Why the Difference Matters More Than You Think
What If You Could Time Travel and Erase Your Trauma?
Would You Erase Your Hurt? The fantasy of time travel is one of humanity’s oldest dreams. We have imagined it in myths, in novels, in science, and in countless films. Step into a machine, turn a dial, and undo the worst day of your life. Hollywood has built entire franchises on it because the… Continue reading What If You Could Time Travel and Erase Your Trauma?
What I Learned from Caring for a Baby
The Invisible Line Between Need and Expression Babies cry. That’s what they do. It’s the only tool they have to tell you something is wrong. They don’t have words, no way to explain their experience or ask for what they need. They cry because one or more of their essential needs are unmet.… Continue reading What I Learned from Caring for a Baby
How to Build Trust After Trauma
Trauma and Trust:Breaking the Cycle on the Mat A recent encounter on the mat almost made me share a part of my book with my students. I hadn’t planned to reveal this chapter yet. But the timing was too clear to ignore. The message is too important to hold back any longer. It’s a raw,… Continue reading How to Build Trust After Trauma
Why Are We So Drawn to Violence?
From WWF to UFC: Why Fake Violence Faded and Real Combat Took Over. When the WWF study came out in the late 1990s, it revealed something uncomfortable. Researchers observed that young boys who watched professional wrestling regularly began mimicking what they saw. They hit more. They pushed. They acted out. They walked around with puffed… Continue reading Why Are We So Drawn to Violence?
What Independence Really Means
Independence Requires Discipline: A Reflection on Freedom Independence is a word we love to celebrate, but too rarely do we stop to ask what it really means. It is more than flags and fireworks. More than history. At its core, independence is the ability to live without being subject to someone else’s will. It is… Continue reading What Independence Really Means
Many Survivors Don’t Know They’ve Hit a Ceiling
How Survivors Can Start Moving Forward Again A famous comedian once described life as a series of disappointments, stress, and pain, ending in death. And yet, people still fight for it. You could be 95 years old, barely holding on, and a doctor says, “There’s a new experimental surgery that could extend your life by… Continue reading Many Survivors Don’t Know They’ve Hit a Ceiling
Why Physical Training Should Be Part of Every Child’s Education
Grounded in Science: Contact Sports Make Kids Smarter, Stronger, and More Secure. I have seen hundreds of kids change through training. I have seen them walk in unsure, disconnected, fidgety, and leave standing tall. I have seen children who could not make eye contact eventually coach others, speak up, and lead. And the most important… Continue reading Why Physical Training Should Be Part of Every Child’s Education
